#30 - My Past Year Review: Positive And Negative Peaks
The Unreasonable Art of Living - A podcast by Gerhard Molin
Happy New Year Everyone!In this episode, I talk about my peak POSITIVE and NEGATIVE experiences based on the “Past Year Review”, share with you my learnings, and give you a little outlook for 2024.Thank you for listening so far, and tuning in. Can’t wait to see what 2024 has in store for us.Tim Ferris “Past Year Review”:1) Grab a notepad and create two columns: POSITIVE and NEGATIVE.2) Go through your calendar from the last year, looking at every week.3) For each week, jot down on the pad any people or activities or commitments that triggered peak positive or negative emotions for that month. Put them in their respective columns.4) Once you’ve gone through the past year, look at your notepad list and ask, “What 20% of each column produced the most reliable or powerful peaks?”5) Based on the answers, take your “positive” leaders and schedule more of them in the new year. Get them on the calendar now! Book things with friends and prepay for activities/events/commitments that you know work. It’s not real until it’s in the calendar. That’s step one. Step two is to take your “negative” leaders, put “NOT-TO-DO LIST” at the top, and put them somewhere you can see them each morning for the first few weeks of 2024. These are the people and things you *know* make you miserable, so don’t put them on your calendar out of obligation, guilt, FOMO, or other nonsense.Books:* Authentic Happiness by Martin Seligman* The Creative Act: A Way Of Being by Rick Rubin This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.howtounreasonable.com