When Valentine’s Day Sucks and How to Survive it with Intuitive Healer, Holly Hughes on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #287

This week on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes back Intuitive Healer Holly Hughes! Listen in to hear the antidote to the Valentine’s Day blues and how to manage the unrealistic expectations of the Hallmark Holiday!  Valentine’s Day can be hard when you are going through a divorce. In this episode, Susan Guthrie and Holly Hughes discuss tactical ways and tips to honor your feelings and not fall victim to the commercialism or beliefs of what the holiday should or needs to be about.  Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Why Holly and Susan are NOT wearing red for this Valentine’s Day-focused episode Create your very own love note jar for YOURSELF Love is lost in the commercialism of Valentine’s Day, instead of love from a partner focus on things you love (your children, art, music, etc.)  Allow yourself to feel your feelings, wallow in them in fact. Then pull yourself out of that space and you’ll feel a sense of relief “In order to feel and receive love, you have to have it for yourself first.” Why it is so important to listen to your inner voice and start recognizing what love actually feels like for you Joy is love. Bring some joy into your life today **************************************** About this week's special guest: Holly Hughes Holly is an award-winning author, speaker, and intuitive healer who infuses her unique personal style, intuitive gifts, and personal healing stories to guide clients through a step-by-step process to help them claim their voice, passions, and self-worth. She helps heal your broken heart so the pain from your past stops limiting your future. Find out more about Holly:  https://hollyhugesintuitive.com Get a Holly’s Book: Real, Not Perfect: How to Become Your Happy Authentic Self Holly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/holly-hughes-b759a9136/ DM Holly on Instagram for more information on setting up an intuitive session with her: https://www.instagram.com/holly_hughes_intuitive/ Mentioned in this episode:It’s Time for Some Radical Self-Care to Get You Through Your Divorce with Intuitive Healer, Holly Hughes Mosten Guthrie Academy:  The  Mosten Guthrie Academy has a full slate of mediation and collaborative trainings and study groups scheduled for 2023! In fact, our first advanced training is on February 15th! Visit MostenGuthrie.com to check out all the different ways that you can study and train with us in the coming year and join the Mosten Guthrie family.  As a special for Divorce and Beyond listeners, if you put in the code DB50  when you register, you'll get $50 off the cost of a training or study group. ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind.  Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan   ________ Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast!  In this new podcast she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or