“Ready to Start Swiping? TOP TIPS for Getting Back Out There After Divorce from Bela Gandhi, America’s Favorite Dating Expert” on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq. #109

In this episode, Susan Guthrie, top family law attorney and mediator, and the former host of Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce Podcast, chats with BELA GANDHI, America's Favorite Dating Expert and the Founder of The Smart Dating Academy to hear her TOP TIPS and action items to get you back on the dating scene after divorce or a break up! Dating, especially after having been in a long-term marriage or relationship, can evoke feelings of terror in the hearts of both men and women of all ages.  There can be a lot of pressure, both external and internal, to get back out into the dating scene and find that new partner.  Often we just don't even know how to get started because dating doesn't even look like dating anymore.  It's all about online dating these days with apps and online programs.  Well, here's your fairy godmother of dating, BELA GANDHI to help you with everything you need to know to get back out there and find that new love!  Bela is America's Favorite Dating Coach and has recently been seen on Good Morning America, the Today Show and The Kelly Clarkson Show helping people across the country to tackle dating in the 2020's and she is going to tell you all about creating the right profile, getting into the right mindset, and how to handle all the issues with dating so that you can find the right "lid to your pot!" Highlights from the Episode: Bela shares how many pictures and how much personal information needs to be in your profile on dating sites and apps. Find out why Bela wants you to be "psychotically optimistic" about dating again. Hear why Bela wants you to "diversify your dating assets" in order to find success in dating. Bela has tips for knowing when it's the right time to get naked with a new person and when it's not! What is the biggest mistake that Bela sees people making when dating and what should they do instead? For all this and more, take a listen to this episode now! Bela Gandhi is the Founder of the Smart Dating Academy. She has an uncanny sixth sense about people, and what they need. Her intuition has been responsible for several marriages (and children)! The Huffington Post and Steve Harvey call her "The Fairy Godmother of Dating!" Bela has been connecting people all of her life. Prior to founding the Smart Dating Academy, Bela worked for 12 years as a top global executive for Akzo Nobel, a large multinational corporation. Bela has two degrees from The University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign (Finance & German), and has been happily married for 20 years with 2 children. You can find out more about Bela, her date coaching services and her FREE GIFT the 7 Clues You are in a Relationship with a Narcissist Quiz at www.smartdatingacademy.com. ******************************************************************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes.  Susan also provides legal coaching and divorce mediation services to select clients around the world through an online platform.  Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:   HELLO DIVORCE: Hello Divorce is a first-of-it's-kind DIY divorce website that allows individuals in California to complete the necessary forms for divorce as well as provides invaluable help with informative videos, articles, affordable legal advice and services all in an online platform and easy to use app!  Listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast can use the discount code "DIVORCEBEYOND" to receive $50 off the cost of any service or subscription!  Find out more at www.hello