Finding Your Tribe: Making New Friends After Divorce with Daniel Herrold of Divorced Over 40 on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.#155

In this episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with Daniel Herrold, one of the co-creators of Divored Over 40, a place to find friends and community after divorce. Often, when the smoke clears after divorce, it becomes apparent that there is another casualty of the split: the friends have fled.  There are a number of reasons why this can happen. Sometimes they are uncomfortable around a breakup, other times they don't want to take sides so they take no side at all, an in others, they do take a side and it's your exes'!  So what is an adult supposed to do to make friends?  Enter Daniel Herrold, who with two new friends, has started a movement!  Just a few months ago they created an online blog on Instagram called @divorcedover40 that grew to include local get-togethers and now already has ambassadors in over 22 cities around the country to spread the word and help you find your tribe!   It can be so hard to start again after divorce and many people just jump into dating to fill the void but Divorced Over 40 is here to help you find something even more important: support, friendship and community.  Take a listen and join the movement! If you would like to read the post that captured Susan's attention and was the catalyst for this episode just click here:  https://www.instagram.com/p/CGP4V1DDG2g/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link and be sure to follow @divorcedover40 on Instagram and Facebook! Find out more about Divorced Over 40 on their new website at www.DivorcedOver40.com! ************************************************************************************* More about this week's Special Guest:  Daniel Herrold Daniel is a lifelong Tulsa native where he has focused his career in the Commercial Real Estate industry for 18 years.   He has three daughters ages 22, 19 and 17.  Daniel and two of his friends started the DivorcedOver40 Instagram account in the early fall of 2020 as a platform to share their own unique stories as well as leverage experts in the divorced arena as well.  ***************************************************************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes.  Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce.  Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************** GO FUND ME CAMPAIGN FOR SPLIT: The Sequel.  ! Susan Guthrie, Creator of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, is honored to support Ellen Bruno Films in the journey to release SPLIT: The Sequel!  Please consider making any size donation.  All donors will receive a special link to an EXCLUSIVE trailer for SPLIT: The Sequel! VISIT THE GO FUND ME PAGE! Listen to the episode with filmmaker,  Ellen Bruno:  https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-fh83w-f4e885 Split A Film About Divorce for Kids and Their Parents , created by documentarian Ellen Bruno , has helped countless children whose families are impacted by divorce to express their feelings and find community at a difficult time in their lives.  Ellen has now continued the conversation with the children in the film, who were all about 5-6 at the time, and has now revisited them in their teens to hear their continued experience with divorce, co-parenting, blended families and more.   Divorce is not a finite time in children's lives and  Split: The Sequel continues their voice and shares their experience so that parents, children and families can continue to benefit from those who have lived it!The editing and production of the film is in the works and the fund received will allow the project to proceed so that the film can debut in 2021!  The