336: Make it easy and simple (A How To)

In todays episode, Betsy shares how she’s stepping aside to allow her guides to lead the way, why she’s come to this place and how she knows she’s on the right path. In this episode you’ll learn how to find your own evidence procedure and forge your path forward in a new way. Transcription: Welcome to the Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy pake. I’m an author, a speaker and a trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I’m focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of the subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big hello, hi. Hi fellow adventurers. Welcome. Welcome to the Art of Living big if you’re new here. Thanks for joining us. All right. So I have, I have some I have a lot of different thoughts for you today. So let’s just dive right in. I just got home, I just got home from Florida, I went to Florida to visit my dad. I think I mentioned last week I was going to go the week before, but I ended up getting a really bad cold. And so I pushed it off. And ended up going this week ended up going Thursday, I drove down it took like, I don’t know, maybe like six and a half, maybe moved closer to seven hours to drive down and then to drive back. And I drove back on Sunday. But you know, like I liked the time in the car, do you know like when you have time to like really think like you can’t get away from yourself. And I listened to some audiobooks. And I did some car dancing. And like it just it felt really fun. And I got to go down and see my dad, now my dad is in his 80s. I have not been down to see him since his 70th birthday. So it’s been a long time. And I have seen him, I have seen him when I’ve gone through Florida, you know, I would stop and have lunch with him meet him somewhere for lunch, or I’ve seen him at a wedding over the past decade. And I do talk to him every week. But I don’t see him very much. It’s just not the kind of relationship that we have. And I know that you probably have relationships like that, that are similar, where it’s, it’s so complicated, that it’s easier to just kind of let it be the way that it is. And I had this feeling that I didn’t. I didn’t want it to continue the way that it was. And so I wanted to make an effort to do something different. And so I asked if I could go down, he was super excited. I talked to him on the phone probably every week, you know, sometimes more, if I’m struggling with something, I’ll call him or ask his advice for something. So it’s not that we’re not close. It’s just complicated. And so I went down, and my dad is married. And I think I’ve talked about that before, but there was so much evidence of my healing. My dad got married, when maybe the year after my mom died when I was in high school. And that has been that relationship has been a big struggle in my life. But gosh, when I was there, there was so like, over and over again, I could see how much I had grown and changed. And if there is some relationship in your life that you struggle with, it really can be so different. I saw so much evidence of me observing, you know, like, something would be said, and I would just simply be observing, I noticed that I was really keen on interpreting, or noticing micro expressions on faces and understanding what was being said, that was different than what the words were, you know, it just became really clear. There were also several times where in the past I would have been, I don’t know, maybe defensive or, like, for example, there, Megan and Harry, Prince Harry came up. And we think differently. My step mother, my dad’s wife, and I think much differently.