321: Walking the walk: be aware of where things don’t match up

When we are walking the walk and not just talking the talk, everything in our lives becomes more aligned, easier, and hopeful. Betsy uses a recent example in her life to illustrate this idea and encourages you to look for areas in your life that could be improved by aligning what you are saying with what you are doing. *Connect with Betsy on IG @betsypake TRANSCRIPT Welcome to the Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy pake. I’m an author, a speaker, and a trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I’m focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of the subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hi, good morning. Hi, everyone. Welcome to the show today. Welcome to the Art of Living big. So I have this thing that happened to me this morning. And I was like, I’m going to record, you know, the thing I’m going to share with you, I feel, I don’t know, I feel like it’s heavy. It feels heavy, like on my chest, almost like when something happens. And you’re like, oh my gosh, it feels almost like it’s stopping me from breathing. And I was curious about it. Because I was like, why is this? So? Triggering is not the word because I’m really not triggered. I’m more. What’s the word? I’m more like this can’t happen. Like this is not okay. And I want to talk about it and why it’s not okay. And it’s something that I see over and over and over and over and over again, with coaches and with people online building businesses. And I think it’s something that we don’t talk about, and I had it happen this morning, and I’m like, I’m going to talk about this. It’s been something I’ve been thinking about, but even more so because it just happened to me this morning. So here’s the message that I got this morning. And no hate to this person because they look lovely. And I’m sure they’re really good at what they do. But I got a DM in my messages on Instagram this morning. It’s clearly a cut and paste my name is spelled wrong. And it says it’s amazing how you leverage your skills and experience to help people unleash their true potential to thrive in their lives, or businesses. So clearly, you haven’t looked at anything right? Or living their lives or businesses. With these times more people need your expertise. And I’m surprised you’re not running any ads. Is there a reason why? So I looked at it. And I went to their profile. And clearly they run ads, they do Facebook ads, that’s their business. So their business is to help me get clients by running Facebook ads. And there’s been a time in my business where I ran ads. I don’t do it very often. And honestly, I don’t think I’ve done it in years. But they’re absolutely that is a good service. And I there’s no shame in that at all. But if you teach people and if you think that running ads is the way to go, that you’re surprised that I’m not running ads. Why are you finding me not in an ad? Why are you finding me by sliding into my DMs. And I think this is a thing that we see, like over and over and over again, right? The person who teaches real estate, how to make a bunch of money with real estate, and then you find out they don’t own any real estate, right? The person that’s trying to get you to buy a Facebook ad service from them, but they don’t use Facebook ads, or they’re not using it to get you I don’t know if she runs them. I didn’t check.