318: You Can Create Change Faster than You Think

If just one area of your life could be different and cause everything to feel lighter, what would that area be? Betsy explores this question and suggests that you can make the necessary changes faster than you think. You just have to dare to take a step forward. *Connect with Betsy on IG @betsypake TRANSCRIPT Welcome to the Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy pake. I’m an author, a speaker, and a trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I’m focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of the subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hi, everyone. Hi, welcome. Welcome to the Art of Living big if you’re new here, thanks so much for being here. If you’ve been here for a long time, then I will tell you this is like my 16th time starting this podcast. Why is this so hard today? I keep feeling like I’m trying to explain something that is just so difficult to put into words. So I’m going to just make it short and sweet and say, I have been on like the highest flying disc the past three weeks, like strangely, strangely amazing. I’m not complaining, like it’s amazing. I’m waking up, I was telling my friend Trish, Trish from Episode 208 I was telling my friend Trish, I feel like I’ve been shot out of a cannon every morning like I am so pumped. And like, you know, like I’m in my car I got in my car today. And I was heading out because I have been going to this place called Rome, which is like a, like a remote work place, you know, and they have like a big coffee shop and like this huge area for us to work. And then we have office spaces too. So anyway, I was heading there, which I love working there. It’s very creative and cool seeming. And it’s one of the things I really love about living in the city now. But like the moment I got in my car was like I turned on the car, the radio came on. And then that very moment started. Don’t stop believing by journey. So like, I was like, this is the most perfect timing. Yes, I could just turn it on, like from Spotify, like when I got in the car. But the fact that it just was ready and waiting for me on the radio just added to the amazement. So I know that this probably seems kind of strange, like why I am not totally sure. But I will tell you that the other day was a regular day. It was a regular day. And I’m saying this is gonna sound strange. It was maybe one of the happiest days of my life. I’ve had people say to me before, like, What’s your most favorite day of your whole life? And I’m like, I really don’t know. Like, I really I don’t know, I remember the first time I went to the Caribbean, that was pretty amazing. But then that feels like a weird memory because it was with my ex husband. So like if if my husband standing there and someone was like, What’s your favorite memory? And I’m like, it’s when I went on vacation with my ex husband like, that seems really weird. Now from now on, always, when people say, what is the best day you’ve ever had? I’m going to be like it was like the 27th of September and 2022. Why? I think because I had so much gratitude for everything that was happening. And I was starting to realize that. So many of the things that were happening, were things that I’ve wanted to happen for a long, long time. And things that I wanted to happen for years and years and years and years. And like the interesting thing, as I’m looking at everything is that I’m realizing that I wanted those things for years and years and years. But it didn’t take years and years and years to get them. I know what am I even talking about?