314: It’s Your Responsibility to Get the Value You Need to Be Your Best Self

Where you find value is really important because, ultimately, you are in charge of the value that you get from everything. Today, Betsy shares a quick story that could shift something for you in terms of where you find value. She encourages you to be aware of situations you’re staying in, even after you’ve already gotten what you need. Where is it that you need to shift to take full responsibility for the value you’re getting from everything in your life and what would help you live as the very best version of yourself? * Connect with Betsy on IG @betsypake TRANSCRIPT Welcome to the Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy pake. I’m an author, a speaker, and a trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I’m focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of the subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hello. Hi, everyone. Welcome to the show today. Welcome to the Art of Living big. So I have I have lost my mind. Okay, so I, I sat down, I’m like, I’m going to record this episode. And the episode that I’m going to record is actually one that I wanted to share last week, and life just got away from me. So I’m like, I’m going to do this today, I’ve got some time, I’m going to jump in and do this. And when I sit down, I have like a little green marker that shows me like how loud my voice is, you know. So it like goes up as I talk and goes down when there’s a silence. And I can see that it’s moving even though I’m not making any sound. So I’m like, it’s the air conditioner. And I’ve never really noticed my air conditioner before. But now I’m like obsessed with the fact that their conditioner is so loud. So I went and I turned it like air like way up. So it was a higher so that the thing would shut off. But it didn’t shut off. And so then I was like, I’m gonna just change it from auto and just turn it off. I mean, I truck, shut the whole thing off, I shut the whole unit down. Okay. And then I’m like, why is it still showing this green? Why is it still look like I’m talking like, I’m sweating. Now I’m like, been working on this for like 20 minutes trying to get the stupid thing to shut up. And it’s my dishwasher. It is my dishwasher. So I hope that you can’t hear the hum in the background. Apparently, I have hypersensitive ears today. Obsessed with every sound that’s happening. But welcome. Welcome to the show. So all right, so I’ve got a list of things that I want to talk about. And some of the things that I want to talk about, I think are going to be really long, like entire long episodes on their own. And so today, what I want to do is tell a quick story. So I want to tell a quick story, because I’m curious if it shifts something for you, in terms of where you find value. And I think that this is really important because we are ultimately in charge of the value that we get from everything. And when I say everything, I mean that like, you’ve probably heard me talk before about being at cars, and taking ownership of every experience that I have. Now, can things happen, that I don’t want, absolutely. But when I take ownership and I say I’m at cause I get to decide how I feel about this, then that empowers me. And that’s the place that I want to live from. I want to live from a place where I’m really empowered. And one of the things that I’ve been saying the last like couple of weeks at my house is like is that the best version of me? You know, if I do something I say that doesn’t make me feel like the best version of me. Or if I’m,