310: How Can You Start Seeing the Solution Instead of the Problem?

Think about the places in your life where you think you’re stuck. How can you move forward? Betsy suggests that sometimes all you need to do is get really present. When you are present, you’ll start seeing the options you have available, and they aren’t always something you have to do on your own. Sometimes you may need a team to offer a different perspective to help you shift. Either way, we live in a universe of polarity, which means if you’re stuck, there is another way. If you have a problem, there is an answer. * Connect with Betsy on IG @betsypake TRANSCRIPT Welcome to the Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy pake. I’m an author, a speaker, and a trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I’m focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of the subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hello fellow adventurers. Hi, everyone. Welcome to the Art of Living big this week, I am home I actually recorded this episode, I was in Denver, I’m going to tell you this whole story. But I was in Denver, and I recorded I was trying to move the recording from my phone where I record it with this little this little shore mic, and I was trying to send it to my laptop and my downloads folder was like corrupted I was on with support Apple support for like two days, we finally figured it out. But then somehow it’s not even on my phone anymore. So I don’t know if in the me sending sending sending it did something but I figure it is all for the best. And maybe there was a different way for me to say whatever I said that will be even better. So that’s how we’re gonna start the episode. This is about to be an amazing episode, I guess. So it’s a little bit of a coffee talk episode because there’s a couple different things that I want to tell you. And if you’ve been here for a while, you know how I kind of find meaning, I guess in the every day. And so that’s where we’re going to start. So I the last this past week has been really, really fun. have wondered if I should go back. I’m let’s, let’s travel back in time. Let’s start from the very beginning because this actually might really help you. Alright, so about six weeks ago, you may remember that I did an episode that said I had a really hard six weeks, like I was going through a really hard time, a lot of things were changing. I was feeling like a lot of angst and anxiety, really, I was feeling the anxiety and nervousness. I didn’t even know what it was related to. But I think it was just like an up leveling and stepping into new things. And all of that felt really unsteady and uneasy to me. I did some hypnotherapy, I bought some calm magnesium gummies like I was meditating, I was like doing all the things and, and honestly, all of those things played a part and really helped. And then probably around six weeks ago, my husband and I were talking and we decided that we were going to almost do like a super focus on what it was that we really wanted. Now, I think he kind of went along with it. I don’t know that he has something that he needed to super focus on to get what he wanted. But I know that I did you know, or and I still do I have things that I want to call in my life experiences that I want to have. And so for me, I didn’t want to be like worried about a lot of the things that I was worried about. Now. I’m just speaking for myself, personally. But I didn’t like watching the news, because every time I was watching the news, I was getting really upset. Now there are certain news programs that I really, really like. And there’s certain TV programs that reference the news or talk about things that I r...