261: What if I don’t know what I want!

Today Betsy talks about last weeks episode and what to do if you don’t know what you want! Transcription: Welcome to The Art of Living big. I’m your host, Betsy Pake. I’m an author, a speaker, a master coach, and trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I help people create lives they’re excited about over the next 30 minutes, I hope to help you redefine what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hello, welcome to the show. Hello fellow adventurers, welcome to The Art of Living big if you’re new here, thank you, thank you for being here. And if you’ve been here for a little while, thank you for sharing the show with your friends. I really appreciate it. Because you know, I’m like, sitting here, recording every week. And to know that you liked it so much that you told somebody that you care about is it’s pretty awesome. So thank you. Thank you for that. A lot of people shared last week’s show. And the reason that I know that is because I got quite a few messages. And I want to talk today about the message that I got. And why I think it’s a really, really good distinction. And even if when I tell you look, the messages that I got, even if you’re like, Oh, that’s not me, Listen anyway, because there’s gonna be like a little something in there for you. I can feel it. So this week, I’m recording the podcast a couple days early, because I am going to visit a girlfriend in Minnesota. So I’m leaving tomorrow on Wednesday, and I will just spend a couple days at the lake with her and with her parents, and I’m so excited. I’m so excited to just like have, like, some girl time, you know, it’s funny to me, because since I moved to Atlanta, it’s not like I moved very far right? I lived outside Atlanta. And then in December, I moved into Atlanta. But it is far enough that you don’t just meet up and honestly, I don’t. After I sold the gym, I’m not sure I really was meeting up with anybody anyway, because it just wasn’t where I needed to be. So it’s really, really fun for me, which leads me into today’s show, like it feels fun. And sometimes we can be unsure. A couple different things happen. But we can be unsure about what feels fun. So here’s the here’s the message that I got from quite a few people direct message on Instagram, replying to my text messages. If you’re, if you’re not on my text list, a couple days a week, I send out a message from my deep streaming and you can get on there, it’s free, you can just text me, if you just text like whoa, 770-343-3409 you’ll get on that list. Anyway, I got messages, I can get messages back through that service. And I got some messages back. Okay, so here’s what the here’s what the gist of the message is. Last week, I did an episode about what is the drum that you’re beating? It was episode number 260. What is the drum that you’re beating? And it was really about? Where is your focus? You know, whatever you’re focused on for a lot of different reasons, both brain reasons, and I think energetic reasons. Whatever we’re focused on is what we’re seeing more of and it becomes our reality. So then we go, Yeah, but that is real. I know, I think my boss is a jerk, but it is real, because he is our I know, my husband is, you know, annoying, because he is like, no, like I see it. And that’s how I know it’s true. And what I want to challenge and what I talked about last week was I want to challenge that it’s not because you see it that it becomes true, it’s becomes true, because you see it, and you see it because you’re searching for it. And whether or not you want it is irrelevant. And so wherever you’re placing your focus is what’s ...