216: Clarifying a Yes or a No.

Let’s talk about how to really know if it’s a YES or a NO so that you can be taking aligned action toward your overarching goal and not getting sidetracked spinning your wheels. Here are the questions I talked about: Get clear on what areas you really want to shift and how committed you are. Where do you want to see things going? How do those things show up in your life? What’s next for you in each of these areas. How do you want to be seen in these areas? What do you do once you are there? How does this shift your everyday work experience? How do you shine in trouble comes? What do you do when things slow down. How do you respond to overwhelm?  Decide. Make these decisions for your life so you don’t drop into default and get stuck playing out some version of yourself you no longer want to see. Some version that you picked up and assimilated from someone else.  What would the purest essence of you do in each of these situations? How would she react? Decide and stay [laying out this new story in a way that positively impacts you toward your desired future right now. Start now. Start today. Do this today and now. You can create whatever it is you want to and the portal is open for you to do that with ease right now but you’ve got to have a clear understanding of what you want and are doing. Don’t get sidetracked by other things. This is important too for your moving forward and balance in the future. Here’s the link to my training: www.subconsciousworkshop.com Here’s the link to my calendar: www.betsypake.com/letstalk Transcription: Welcome to The Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy Pake, and I’m an author, speaker and a master mindset coach focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of your subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hello fellow adventurers. Welcome to today’s show. So it’s Friday again. So Friday’s must be my day, I’m gonna shoot for Thursday’s knowing the Friday it will come out. And here’s why. If you’re new here, I only share when something comes to me to share. So I don’t want to just share something because it’s the day to have to share something. And so I really wait until there is like something that lets me know, this is the thing that everybody needs to hear. And for me, if you are, if you follow me on Instagram or friends on Facebook, you saw that I posted yesterday morning, Thursday morning, I had some thoughts on what I was going to share and found out that a friend of mine had passed away. And it was pretty set in and sad. And I really struggled yesterday, I had some space on my calendar. And so I just blocked it off. And I just, you know, did a lot of self care, I guess, you know, I did a lot of thinking I did a lot of journaling. I did a lot of talking to her. And really got clear on what it is that I needed to learn. You know, right now I think in the world, there’s so much change, and so much shifting, it can be really overwhelming. And I know for me, it’s almost as if the I’m gonna use the word novelty just for lack of a better word, so bear with me. But like the novelty of the Coronavirus, like being quarantined and being home has sort of worn off. And now I find myself getting really antsy. And there’s just so much happening in the world and so much energy and so many things shifting,