203: Steps 3,4 & 5: Finally BEing

Listen to todays episode here… Transcript: Welcome to The Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy Pake, and I’m an author, speaker, and a master mindset coach focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of your subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Good morning. Hello fellow adventurers. Welcome to today’s show. So before we get started on today’s show, I want to quick talk about intention. Last night I was talking with I was a client it was in a client session, but I want to say a friend, it was a friend client, because that’s what happens. But we were talking about intention. And, and she was saying something that I think happens with a lot of people. And you know, I’ve been doing the Monday intention episode. And so I’m curious if this is happening with other people. So she’s building a side business and working full time. And so she says so many, it’s a little overwhelming, right? We get a little overwhelmed when we try to do too much or right on the verge of too much. And so she said, I, you know, I try to set an intention, but then my intention ends up being something like I’m going to be productive. And so I said, you know, being productive isn’t a feeling, what do you want being productive to give you? And she said, Well, I want it to give me like, so that I can have this business. I said, Well, what does the business give you? And she said, freedom. And I said what’s freedom? And she said it’s like time opening? Like where my time is open? So I said, so your intention then is, I’m going to notice all the places today where I have an abundance of time, where my time is expanded? Do you see what I’m saying? So when we are talking, you know, in the last couple episodes here, we’ve been talking about Abraham Hicks steps right to manifesting Step one is to experience the contrast, right? So as we’re doing that, what we want to know is what the contrast is, what we really want, then, is the intention, I want this freedom. How I bring the contrast, or how I bring the manifestation to me, is by feeling it, how do I feel it? Well, I get focused and set the intention that I’m going to feel that expansion of time. And then I bring that thing to me that would give me that. So does that make sense? So here’s the other thing about it is that what she wants is an expansion in her time, she wants to feel abundant and have an abundance of time. So she can do these things with their kids and, you know, have these experiences and be able to have that in our life? Well, she has an idea of how she could get there. But what if the universe has a faster idea? And what if there’s another way, or what if there is a way that is more fun on the same path, if she is super focused on I’m gonna have to have this, I’ve got to be focused, I’ve got to be that I’ve got to be productive, I’ve got to have I’ve got to accomplish, accomplish, then she’s, she’s crowding out the fun, and she’s not seeing where what she wants is already around her. And we bring what we get when we have it already. Right. So if you have stress, you’re gonna bring more stress. If you feel freedom, you’re gonna bring more freedom. And that that’s, you know, that’s partly the universe. That’s partly our brain. That’s what our brains do. It says, oh,