163: Who are you pretending to be?

Today’s episode we talk about a study on aging and how that translates to our lives and where we want to go in our lives. Join us in the Facebook group at www.TheArtofLivingBig.com Transcript: You’re listening to Episode 163 of The Art of Living big. Today on the show, I’m going to talk a little bit about a study that I read and how it began to impact how I’m thinking about my future and how I’m thinking about my right now. Really, it’s about right now what I’m doing, how I’m acting, how I’m behaving, doing and being. So I want you guys to listen. And I want you to actually take action on today’s episode. And one of the actions I want you to take is to jump into the Facebook group or, or find me on on Instagram or wherever you are, and let me know what you’re going to do. You’ll understand more as you listen. But I really want to know, who are you pretending to be? And who are you going to pretend to be in the future? I’ll explain. Let’s go to the show. Welcome to the art of living big. I’m your host, Betsy Pake. I’m an international expert in manifesting from your subconscious. And this podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Good morning, everybody. Welcome to today’s show. This is like a coffee talk episode. Because I just have my coffee, and I’m talking. So this is what I think of the coffee talk episodes are really like, We’re friends and we just sat down to get some coffee. And this is the stuff that I want to tell you. I just dropped off my sweet little dog, you know, my little pup Miley, who is like 11 years old, I mean, she’s like 20 pounds, not really not 19 pounds, 19.4 officially because I just dropped her off at the vet, she has a mass, like right on her butt. So on her butthole. And so they are going to go in and they think it looks cancerous. So they’re going to take that off. And so I just dropped her off. And you know, I feel as if it was this weird feeling because I feel as if so many things are coming to a close, you know, I talk on this show a lot about creating the life that you really want. But here’s the thing, we’re in a life that we are in, right, all of the things that are happening around this life, maybe with your job, maybe with your family, maybe with your kids, maybe with your you know, living situation, maybe with where you live, like all of those things are in motion. And if you have this idea and this dream, like way out like this is the dream that I want, right? And it is different, it is so different from where you are, where you are, has to unravel to some extent, right, so that it can reorganize itself to become the thing that you’re after. And so I noticed this with my clients like week, two or three things start to unravel. And they’re like, Oh my gosh, everything’s unraveling. I’m like, No, it’s not. It’s reorganizing. So with my sweet Miley, I feel as if so many things right now in my life. Are reorganizing closing loops coming to a to a close, like seasons ending all of the things and I don’t want my Miley to go away. Like, I’m mildly obsessed with that dog. I love that dog. She and I have been through a lot together. But I had this weird moment when I brought her because I thought like she I hope she lives another eight years, right? I mean,