26 May | Death: The Final Taboo

Let's be real, death is not something that most of us are comfortable talking about. Who wants to think about the death of family or friends until we absolutely have to? As it turns out, beginning to talk about death before it is strictly necessary can do so much for when we are faced with the reality. To clarify, in this episode of Sunday Sanctuary we are not talking about sudden, unexpected death. This episode we are talking about the eventuality of natural death that faces everyone. Join Petra Bagust as she talks to paliative care nurses and clergy alike, to unpack the advantages of opening ourselves to conversations about the end of life. First up, Petra heads south to talk to Ann, a palliative care nurse (and mum of producer Sam), about her experiences of walking alongside many families as they face the death of a loved one. Later in the episode, Petra is joined by Anglican minister and chaplain to New Zealand's film industry, Kevin Denholm (otherwise affectionately known as Rev Kev ;). Kevin had a slightly different summer to most, leading eight funerals for residents of Aotea/Great Barrier Island. Haere Mai! Sacred Texts:  The Tale of the Three Brothers from Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Part I Featured Music: Fourth of July by Sufjan Stevens Someone Great by LCD Soundsystem (Lyrics) Pine Trees by Mary Lattimore (played during the contemplative practice) Statue Of A Woman by Novo Amor (played at the end of Ann's interview) Books suggested by Ann: With the End in Mind by Kathryn Mannix Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom Being Mortal by Atul Gawande When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi