Living With More Confidence And Faith Now with Ben Gibson

In today’s episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy, Dr. Aziz invites his good friend and colleague, Ben Gibson, for a deep and insightful conversation about a different kind of confidence: spiritual confidence, or divine confidence. While we often discuss self-confidence and overcoming personal doubts, this episode dives into something deeper—trusting in life, the universe, or something bigger than ourselves. Together, Dr. Aziz and Ben explore what it means to have faith in the unknown, to trust that there’s a solution to every problem, even when the path is unclear. Whether you come from a religious background, consider yourself spiritual, or identify as an atheist, this episode is for you. It’s about embracing faith and trust, not in a prescribed way, but in a way that feels accessible to everyone. Join them as they share personal stories, practical insights, and real experiences to help you cultivate faith in yourself, others, and life itself. If you’re looking for a way to build both self-confidence and a deeper spiritual connection, this episode offers powerful tools to guide you. Tune in, reflect, and start cultivating your divine confidence today!   --------------------------   Unlocking Spiritual Confidence: Trusting in Life Beyond Self Are you struggling with social anxiety, people-pleasing, or a crippling fear of rejection? Perhaps you’re longing to live more authentically, to speak up boldly, and to not be paralyzed by what others might think. If so, you're not alone—and there’s a powerful shift you can make today that goes beyond simply “working on your confidence.” In a recent episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy, Dr. Aziz Gazipura dives deep into a dimension of confidence that is often overlooked but is crucial for true inner freedom: spiritual confidence. Joined by his colleague Ben Gibson, Dr. Aziz explores how trusting in something bigger than yourself—whether you call it life, the universe, or the divine—can elevate your confidence to new heights. The Limitations of Self-Confidence Self-confidence is important. It’s about believing in your ability to handle whatever life throws at you, to step into the unknown, and to take courageous actions. But, as Dr. Aziz points out, self-confidence alone has its limits. No matter how much you build yourself up, there will always be moments where life feels overwhelming, uncertain, or even terrifying. This is where spiritual confidence comes into play. “There’s always something in the unknown that can make it seem threatening or scary until we develop this other side of things—spiritual confidence.” What Is Spiritual Confidence? Spiritual confidence is the trust in something beyond yourself. It's the faith that, even when things don’t go according to plan or when life throws unexpected challenges your way, there is a larger process at work. This isn’t about subscribing to a particular religion; it’s about finding a deep, personal connection to something bigger. Ben Gibson shares how, in his journey, this trust has become a crucial part of navigating life’s trials. “Faith is the belief in something that I don’t see. It’s not just a hope; it’s a deep inner knowing.” The Role of Faith in Handling Life’s Challenges Faith doesn’t mean you’ll be shielded from all pain or that life will always be smooth. In fact, it’s often through life’s most challenging moments that our faith—and by extension, our spiritual confidence—is forged. Ben and Dr. Aziz discuss how pain, loss, and uncertainty are not just obstacles to be avoided, but essential experiences that help us grow and ultimately, trust more deeply. Embrace the Process, Not Just the Outcome One of the key takeaways from this conversation is the importance of embracing the process. Just like an apple tree must go through the phases of blossoming, growing, and ripening, we too must trust the journey of our own growth—even when it feels uncomfortable or uncertain. “There’s something beyond the thing that might have been great and even functional up until this point. When it falls away, it just means there’s a bigger process happening.” Action Step: Examine Your Perspective As you go about your day, pause and ask yourself: How am I perceiving myself, life, and whatever you might consider divine? Just observing your current lens can be the first step toward shifting it. This simple awareness can open up a pathway to greater spiritual confidence, helping you to face life’s challenges with a deeper sense of peace and trust. Remember, every moment of your life is a new one, and with the right perspective, you can move forward with confidence—not just in yourself, but in the life that unfolds before you.