Which Voice Rules Your Life? Pusher, Perfectionist, Critic, or Controller?
Relationship Rescue - A podcast by Heather Carter
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Your personality develops from infancy throughout your lifetime. Yes, we have innate abilities and characteristics, but our programmers (parents, peers, teachers, society) have the most impact on what we believe about ourselves and life. Our protector/controller observes our environment and determines which behaviors will work best and please the most amount of people. We create reactions to our environment. The question I need to help a person heal is how does the unaware ego protect the individual's vulnerability and what the unaware ego fears will happen to the person if they are not in control. The controller/protector brings in help through the voices of the pusher, perfectionist, and critic to keep their person safe.If you want to know why you think the things you think and do the things you do, then this is the episode for you. To schedule your free clarity call click here.