Ep. 18: An unexpected Christmas miracle

Every once in a while you hear of an unexpected Christmas miracle. Two years back, I received mine. You see, 25 years ago, I made a snap decision I would later regret. Click below for show notes! https://www.ruthiegray.mom/unexpected-christmas/       A young wife with 2 kids and a baby, I was packing our house up for a job relocation back home. As is often the case, one accumulates tons of junk when raising little ones, so I feverishly off-loaded to Goodwill like a mad woman.   I packed the boxes, and Jim (after questioning all the stuff I purged  - and getting the stink eye from me), loaded them up and whisked them away. We were finally moving home, and life was good.   Once we relocated, I unpacked necessary items and then stuffed a few unpacked boxes with sentimental possessions in my closet.  After all, life was moving at breakneck speed with my new career as the music teacher at the kid’s Christian school... and I just found out I was pregnant. Again.    About 5 months into our relocation, I looked for our wedding memorabilia. Except when I dug through all the boxes - it was missing. No photo album, no signed guest book - it was gone. ALL of it.   With a sinking feeling, I realized I’d given our wedding memories to Goodwill and would most likely never see them again.   Around the same time, Jim discovered his nice black dress coat was also missing. (I got in trouble for that.) He’s often joked that someone in Martinsburg is walking around with his good coat and claiming our wedding memories.    We have just one picture of the wedding, from somebody who attended. Our kids have never seen our wedding pictures. Many times, I’ve lamented the non-passing on of our heritage.       The Unexpected Christmas Miracle But all that changed today with a mysterious phone call. A guy who owns rental property found our wedding memory box years ago in one of his dwellings, took it home, and set it on a shelf. And that’s where it sat for 20 something years - until he decided to open it last week.   Mr. Vanmeter from Martinsburg, West Virginia, wanted to know if we were still together (I’d have wondered that too - after all, who gives away their wedding album?!) and he proceeded to tell Jim our engagement story - written in our wedding guest book, so we knew it was legit.   How did he find us? Inside the box was an old bulletin from Maple Valley Baptist Church, where my dad pastored, with his name and home phone number on the front.   Long story short, my dad and mom still had the same phone number and the wedding box found its way home on December 21, right when all of our kids were home for Christmas!⁣   My eldest snapped a photo of Jim and I with our kids gathered ‘round, getting their first peek at our unexpected Christmas miracle-- our wedding photos!   When asked why he would do this for us, he responded, “I’ve been married 54 years.