Evolving Together, with Rae Maté

Ever wondered what it’s like to be the heart and soul behind one of the most influential figures in trauma and addiction recovery? Join us for a deeply personal conversation with Rae Mate, the wife of Dr. Gabor Maté, as she opens up about her journey, their shared growth, and her unique perspective on family and relationships. Hosted by Rose Claverie, this episode promises a candid look into Rae's life, offering invaluable insights into her role as a mother, partner, and woman on her own transformative path.[3:09] : Discover Rae's pivotal lessons in raising her children and the profound reflections on her parenting journey. She candidly discusses her regrets and offers invaluable advice to fellow mothers.[5:44] : Unveiling why women seek Rae's guidance during her husband, Gabor Maté's retreats. Rae aims to validate their experiences, acknowledging their realities while empowering them through their shared struggles.[8:44] : Rae delves into her temporary separation from Gabor, revealing the adjustments they made and the innovative approaches to continuously reinvent their marriage. She shares her personal growth journey, striving to be less reactive and fostering change within herself.[12:25] : Exploring Rae's continuous evolution, particularly in the realm of communication within her relationship, as she navigates growth and connection.[16:30] : Rae's perspective on the significance of marrying someone akin to her father and the insights drawn from this aspect of her life.[18:57] : Rae imparts wisdom for soon-to-be-married individuals, recommending "Getting the Love That You Want" by Harville Hendrix as essential reading.[21:22] : Recalling Rae and Gabor's initial Valentine's Day date, reminiscing about the time when Gabor was simply Gabor Mate, pre-Gabor Maté.[24:32] : Delve into the endearing qualities that Rae cherishes in Gabor and vice versa, offering glimpses into the heartwarming facets of their relationship.[28:00] : Exploring the transformation of family life amidst Gabor Maté's increasing public recognition. Rae sheds light on her contributions during Gabor's sessions and the changes within their family dynamics.[29:41] : Harvest of the Day: Rae reflects on the beacon of hope that inspires her amidst life's intricacies.You can follow us on Instagram at @HarvestSeries or @rose.claverie for updates.Watch our podcast episodes and speaker sessions on YouTube: Harvest Series.Credits:Sound editing by: @lesbellesfrequencesTechnicians in Kaplankaya: Joel MoriasiMusic by: ChambordArtwork by: Davide d'AntonioHarvest Series is produced in partnership with Athena Advisers and Capital PartnersHarvest Series Founders: Burak Öymen and Roman CarelMentioned in this episode:Templar and Dr. ShefaliInterested in joining us for our two next fabulous events? A musical night at the Templar home in Portugal on the 21st of September, and a 3 day retreat to deepen your family connection with the amazing Dr. Shefali from the 30th of October.Templar and Shefali