How Do I Know What Is Real or True When My Husband Gaslights Me? [165]

Is the last thing you googled, “Am I crazy?” or “Why does my husband hate me?” or the literal title of this episode? Bleh. Living in such horrible, constant confusion can make us obsessive. Not crazy obsessive. The “desperate for answers” kind. The “I’m living in purgatory and I hate it!” kind. The “Is it me even though I’m trying so hard?” kind. If you’re looking for a fixed point of reference—a way to know what’s real and true, then you’ve stumbled across something better than 6.84 million Google results. Because I’m going to answer your question in incredible detail. In this episode, I lay all the cards on the table: - The messages this crazymaking makes in our brains (which are much more dangerous than the crazymaking and abuse) - Why your husband’s behavior is not actually creating the problems (WHAT?!? Hear me out.) - The ONE THING you keep giving your husband that you need to give yourself instead - Why trusting a man who lies means you can’t trust someone more important (it’s a nasty cycle) - Resources to help you get off this hamster wheel of horror…for keeps Listen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/165 FREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.) Desperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com And, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com